Washington D.C. Dating Violence

Dating violence in Washington D.C. may include:

• Controlling Behavior: Monitoring a partner’s location, demanding passwords, or isolating them from friends and family.
• Emotional and Verbal Abuse: Name-calling, humiliation, manipulation, or threats that erode self-esteem.
• Physical Violence: Hitting, pushing, or forced confinement.
• Sexual Coercion: Forcing sexual activity or repeatedly pressuring a partner despite clear refusal.

These behaviors may be prosecuted under D.C. Code sections relating to assault, sexual abuse, threats, and stalking.

• Message Screenshots: Save threatening texts, emails, or social media DMs.
• Audio/Video Recordings: Where safe and legally permitted, record abusive conduct.
• Medical Documentation: Collect medical records or injury photos after any physical assault.
• Witness Testimony: Friends, neighbors, or roommates can corroborate repeated abuse.

Collecting and preserving this evidence early can ensure that authorities respond effectively.

In an urgent situation, call 911 or send a Text to 911 if speaking is unsafe. The D.C. Metropolitan Police Department classifies dating violence under “intimate partner violence” and responds accordingly.

You may also use the iWatch D.C. app to submit reports or photos anonymously.

Victims can request a Temporary Protection Order (TPO) or a longer-term Civil Protection Order (CPO) through the Domestic Violence Division of the D.C. Superior Court. These orders may:

• Ban contact and proximity to the victim
• Require the abuser to vacate the home
• Include provisions for temporary custody or financial support

Hearings are usually held within 14 days of filing. Emergency orders are available the same day in high-risk situations.

You may file a personal injury claim for:

• Medical expenses related to physical assault
• Therapy costs for emotional trauma
• Lost income due to stalking or intimidation
• Property damage caused by the abuser

You do not need a criminal conviction to pursue civil compensation, though documentation strengthens your claim.

Legal intervention is recommended if:

• Abuse is repeated or escalating
• You’ve suffered physical injury or emotional trauma
• The abuser continues contact after a breakup
• You experience stalking, digital surveillance, or online threats
• The abuser spreads lies to harm your reputation

Each of these cases may qualify for a CPO and even criminal prosecution under D.C. law.

• D.C. Victim Services Division: Offers legal assistance, therapy referrals, and court navigation help.
• Local Support Agencies: Nonprofits like D.C. SAFE and My Sister’s Place provide shelter, counseling, and safety planning.
• Crime Victims Compensation Program: Helps cover relocation, medical, and legal costs for eligible victims.

In high-risk cases, victims may request accompaniment to court or police appointments through victim advocate services—not private security—but coordinated via certified protection programs.